
Memory Verse: Psalms 55:22 - Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain thee; He shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.
Intro: Plop, plop, Fizz, fizz; Oh, What a Relief It Is! (Marketing Credit: Alka Seltzer)
Hello Ladies! Last weeks assignment was so great, wasn’t it! This week I thought since we all shared about our educational background and our feeling about homeschooling, the trials and tribulations, and how we got our start I thought we’d share about some of the burdens we’ve felt.
Assignment: This would be a good week to tell about your worst struggles with a lifestyle of homeschooling. Tell about something you’ve struggled with and how God’s mercies gave us the strength to get past it. Also, share any curriculum/homeschool methods that have been a relief to you, i.e., a particular Teacher’s Manual or Homeschooling method that’s been easier for your family. Talk about how you felt when the burden was lifted and Oh, What a Relief it is!
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Wow, where to start here? First would be the battle with hubby. Even though in California we were both all for this lifestyle, once we moved to Idaho… his thoughts changed. That and we had some personal / marital / financial struggles in 2007 and on into 2008. We are still working through stuff in those areas. So my first challenge was praying that God would shine the light in John’s heart and help him to know that homeschooling was the best option for us.
After that hurdle, we endured the family. No one seemed to be 100% for it. Not my parents, not my inlaws, not cousins, aunts/uncles, no one. Few have argued with us, but we both felt pressure from all sides that we were doing the wrong thing. I do know that as time has gone on, most of them are fine by it. I mean, honestly, it’s not like they have a choice. It’s not their children, it’s not their lifestyle. And we are okay with that. We choose differently that’s all. It was a bit of an adjustment though.
The other hurdles I have faced are either with hubby or within me. For one, hubby wants a strict, structured school. I am a relaxed homeschooler… I mean hello! I am a creative genius, lol… you can’t expect that kind of person to be stuck with rigid schedules. Secondly, I do struggle some with disciplining myself. There are definitely days where I could just say “nah, let’s not do school… let’s craft or let’s play … or let’s all take a nap.” LOL.
The plus side to all this … I know in my heart I am doing what God wants. He did not call us as Christians to live a passive lifestyle. We are not here to live like the rest of the world. This is not our home. I don’t want my children going to a school and learning about evolution (as fact), homosexuality (as being okay), violence, gossip, etc (as if they are okay things and to be expected). They are not to be expected. We want our kids to grow up knowing the Lord, knowing the Bible, having His Truth hidden in their heart so that when things do happen, they will have Him and His shield to protect them.
One day we will all stand before the Lord and we will give an account for our lives and for how we raised our children, those precious gifts God loaned to us. I do not want to stand in front of the Lord and shamefully tell Him I have no clue what they were being taught. He gave us a manual (the Bible) and that is what we are raising our children by.